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WHAT NO ONE IS REALLY SAYING ABOUT HAVING A BABY

  As an African , many times than we can keep count.  we hear our parents say when are you giving me a baby ?.  I want a grand daughter or a grand son . I am getting older . I want to see them before I die but it’s not only because of them we go ahead to have kids . We have kids to fulfill some righteous notion that we also can be parents. Some of us do because of our religion. While some are parents by mistakes , many are parents by choice . Why? Cos why not really ? Unless of cos you think of all what happens to your sex life and your really cool single life when you have a baby 😂 I can think of one million reasons to not have a kid and we still think of a thousand and one reasons to have one . Which are kids are so adorable as babies as well as a blessing and it’s really cute to have a mini me of yourself or your husband. But what does it really mean to have one .  As a woman, your body is never the same after childbirth .  I have read countless posts about ...