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30's ERA

I know...i know.. You just clocked 30 and it feels like you are yet to achieve anything great in your life. You wonder where all the time went. Honey...this is life.. It rarely ever goes according to plan. We are all winging it as it comes. No one really knows what they are doing. Not even the so called celebs. They are humans just like us. The only difference between us and them is that they have a bunch of teams or a team guiding them on their steps and how to handle business and even their personal lives. Which to me is really sad.  I don't need anyone telling me who or not to sleep with. Honestly i know how hard it is as a black female in her 30's being single. You go to family functions and you get the pitiful look or d sad side eye...Aargh.. Its the absolute worst. But u know what.  Its not the end of the world. Infact, i think you are lucky to have not settled and gotten hitched early.. In my opinion, God loves u. He wants you to work on yourself, build your empire, ...

A cold Sunday Morning

Its a cold sunday morning and as usual PHCN has restored their yeye power. Feeling very motivated this morning and i think i may retain this tempo till the week runs out. I stretch and yawn then realize i am no more feeling as sleepy as i was when i woke up to observe fajr (Morning prayer). As a muslim,you have to get up around 5-5:30 to pray no matter how tired you are. That is the only way to thank your God for making you see the light of another day 😊.  Also isn't it just in our DNA as Africans to be religious? We pray and fast all the time like we killed Jesus christ ..but fail to act right or do the right thing so that things can take its natural course. Enough of my wandering thoughts as i am jolted back to my surroundings with the very loud noise of my neighbours generator. You see this is my third month living here and i do not think i could ever get used to it. Sounds like the size for a factory...but hey,this is Naija. Where everyone is either too selfish to care or ...