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The Busybodies



Today is about the busybodies. Those people that never mind their business and actually make everyone’s business theirs. We also have those that you are not even aware they exist and they know your full information down to your first residential address and ward room No of the hospital you were born in.

Now society has tried to have us all convinced. Infact, a lot of people still believe that a lot of peeps who indulge in office gossips, poke-nosing into others affairs e t.c are females..but Alas, the truth is that so many men are guilty of this behaviour. From your fake aunties or Uncles in the family (you know the one that never spent a kobo on you since you were born but likes to famz you as soon as you do anything great ,or say arrive in a new ride to owning properties or even graduation day e.t.c) to the famzers at your workplace that go round telling everyone that you guys used to be friends or that they know you from Adam...when really you have never said a ‘hi’ to them or even noticed their existence.. 😂😃

Now this brings me to my second observation. The envy and loathe from fellow women. They do not understand why men flock to you or why everyone likes you or wants to talk to you once you walk in or how you manage to have intelligent conversations while staying pretty all the time.I know it irks..but trust me..maybe if u sipped green tea and water and do what you are meant to do at the right time instead of looking for how to bad -mouth peeps all over the place.Then Aunty maybe u could actually get something done in your life also. Afterall we all have the same 24hrs a day as Beyonce. It all comes down to how you use yours.😏

Its amazing how people will say they know your life history when really they cannot even get your family tree straight..😂. Let me be minding my business jejely before they say i have too much time on my hands also.

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