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SOUL MATES

The word “soul mate” has been known to mean different things according to research , history or the nature of relationships in question. 
A soul mate to a lover is someone who makes you feel complete or to some, a union that feels way beyond the physical.

Some traditions or culture believe that a soulmate is someone your soul recognises from either a past life or centuries years ago. They feel very familiar to you from the first moment you meet. You feel at home with them and trust them instinctively and no matter how you try to fight it or pretend otherwise. You cannot deny that they make you very aware of your current situation. 
In some parts of Asia, it is believed that soulmates are lovers in their past lives that keep searching for each other through different lifetimes and although destiny may try to keep them apart, they always find their way back to each other eventually with the help of the universe.

Some things are too strange to be coincidences…. 
Almost as if the universe fights for you to be together - Unknown 

Well.. I think a soul mate could also be your friend; either a male or female friend. It could just be that they get you and know how to push you to assume your best potential. 

Your soulmate is not someone who comes into your life peacefully. It is one who comes to make you question things, Who changes your reality. Somebody that marks a before or after in your life. It is not the human everyone has idealized, but an ordinary person who revolutionize your world in a second. 
   
“When two souls fall in love, there is nothing else but the yearning to be close to each other. The presence that is felt through a hand held, a voice heard or a smile seen”.




“Souls are said to not have a calendar or clock, nor do they understand the notion of time. “They only know if feels right to be with one another” .

This is the reason why you miss someone so much when they are not there. Even if they were in the very next room to you or far across the globe with several oceans in between.
This brings me to ask “can we possibly have more than one Soul mate? Or is it just a word people throw around when they feel some special connection with someone or others?”

Before I attempt to answer that.. Let me just say this :- 

“One day you will find that pairing soul. It will be a feeling beyond your imagination. You cannot help but adore them. You will feel your whole heart melt for this person. This beautiful soul will bring joy, laughter, calmness and so much inspiration that you will finally see ‘hope’ in front of you. 
For once, you can actually say ‘I'm in love and I can picture and see a future with this person. I can share my life with this person. 
Maybe this one is not a lesson; maybe this one  is actually what they call a soul mate ”
                               -  Carlos Medina 

With all these talks about a soulmate. It's only fair that we mention sure ways to spot or identify yours when you meet the one. Apart from the obvious familiarity your soul recognizes. A soulmate can be so much more. There could also be more than one in some very rare instances. 
Like Charlotte York said, from the popular 90’s sitcom “Sex and the city; Maybe our girlfriends are our soul mates and men are just people to have fun with.” 

There can be sure signs to know your soulmate:- Examples but not limited to:-

-ELECTRIC ATTRACTION- When soul mates meet, they feel an instant strong emotional connection to each other.

-SHARE SIMILAR BACKGROUNDS:- Similar backgrounds, family dynamics or having crazy - amazing things in common are a great soul mate sign.

- HAVE THE  SAME VALUES AND LIFE GOALS:- Though personalities may differ, soul mates share common morals about things like child rearing and global issues.

- STRONG INTUITIVE NUDGE:- The most profound, knock -your- socks- off, soul mate signs is the uncanny knowing that you are meant to be together.

-MISSED CONNECTIONS :- Many soul mates discover that they almost met several times before they actually did. 

-MEET IN AN UNUSUAL WAY:- Soul mates are often brought together in Unique ways like over a fender - bender.

-UNCONDITIONAL LOVE:- Soul mates find it an honour to support and help one another, there is no hidden motivation or expectation of what the other will supply for them. Soul mates give love to show love. 



A soul mate is not found; it is recognized!

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